Any advise?

[GhettoGurl]

Okay so I have been dating C for a likkle while now. I think 6 weeks or maybe 7? Not good at dates or remembering "anniversaries" LOL

So anyways... we are both having a really good time and although we are moving at speedy speed it doesnt seem to bother us, so eventhough we are travelling at high velocity we are still going with the flow

Thursday morning he had to drop me off at my aunt's house because of me locking my bike (tying it against the wall) and we accidently bumped into Nigel who was walking to school. I wasnt planning on involving Nigel this fast.. But he offered dropping Nigel to school and they chitchatted in the car... Nigel came home that afternoon saying that C was AWESOME!
(as far as I know C didnt give him any cash LOL oh and Eco if ur gonna make a smart remark ima tell yu to shat ap from now LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL)

Anyways.. On Sunday's me and Nigel have our lazy day... We walk around in PJ's all day and pretend to be in a rock band. It involves not brushing my hair and having it tie up in knots because of the headbanging! So while the band rehearsed a solo without me I called C to see how he was doing.. he replied that he was doing great and asked if I was cold.. I obviously said yes in my sluttiest little voice. At that point the doorbell rang (BTW he lives almost an hour drive away) and the freak showed up at my house unannounced!!! To me it is a HUGE deal. I do hope that we are gonna continue making eachother smile for as long as possible but I have NO idea where he got the confidence from to show up at my house just like that... I buzzed him in but instead of him coming up he brought sum powertool to free my bike!! YAY!! I kinda loved that But after being wawed by him I am thinking WTF!!!

Now he played with Nigel.. had lunch with us.. had dinner with us.. slept over...and I am like WTF I didnt even mean for that to happen yet.

First I need to know what you think about him showing up unannounced? What does that say? Than how do I tell him gently that I dont want to involve my son into this as yet? He is sensitive at times, which surprises me every single time. I say unsensitive things all the time and it annoys him sum times LOLOLOL... It is not like I dont want him to feel like he isnt welcome.. and I dont want him thinking that I have something to hide but he needs to know that I have a kid and that I only want to see him for now when Nigel aint home.... Confuzzled again How do I bring this tactfully?

Ok friggin' heck.. I just re-read it and maybe he IS moving faster than me.. and I am not comfy with it.. what do you think?

[ECO]

I'm glad you mentioned that or I would of given you one of my smart-ass comments.

LOL oh and Eco if ur gonna make a smart remark ima tell yu to shat ap from now LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL)

It's on you to set your ground rules, you can't leave a man guessing or he will screw it up every time. Now that Nigel has met him and he has stayed over some of those rules are sort of mute at this point.

When is he going to start leaving clothes at your home

[GhettoGurl]

LMFAO... U can tease me later tonightand gimme ur smart comments then

But WTF I am just not sure if he is doing it because he feels comfortable enough with me to do so... ORRRR that I am about to find out that he is a dominant control freak

[ECO]

Maybe he is just testing the waters to see what type of family you folks would make. IMHO it's better for him to find out now than in 6 months.

[Wahoo]

My advice is to hire a private detective to run a background check to verify C is his real name and not Joran Van Der Sloot before you end up sleeping with the fishes like Natalie Holloway.

[Nanoose]

Well the way I see it is Sunday is a special day between you and your son and I would bet that you mentioned that fact to Mr. C in the past. So him just showing up uninvited and presuming that he could join the rock band and maybe do a little head banging is a bit presumptuous and rude. I have heard you talk a lot about your son in the past he is your world and you have been with him a lot longer then 7 weeks. (so trust your mama instincts) Cheers!

PS: so that I don’t have to worry – can you take this Mr. C in a fair fight?

[Wahoo]

How can I phrase this delicately? Umm, do you know, at this early stage of the courtship, that you aren't allergic to him? We just don't want you discovering on your wedding night, like was recently reported happening to another couple of newlyweds, that you're allergic to the groom.

[GhettoGurl]

First of all ROTFDWL!!!!!!!! OMG!!!!!

Wahoo, GG being allercig to sperm would be like Betty Crocker being allergic to baking!!!!

Nano, I dunno if I can take him... But I still have Borax_187 on speeddial just incase

[GhettoGurl]

My advice is to hire a private detective to run a background check to verify C is his real name and not Joran Van Der Sloot before you end up sleeping with the fishes like Natalie Holloway.

LMFAO!!!! I am pretty sure Joran is a white boy so C just couldnt be him