Cheating Partners - To Tell or Not To Tell?????

[Wahoo]

I never once cheated during my 13-year marriage (though I did lust in my heart once).

[Rose21]

I would never tell my boyfriend or husband if i cheated or kiss another man. Leave well alone!
Back in my young wild and carefree days i kiss someone who was not my boyfriend. I never consider it as cheatig...But i felt guilty

[ECO]

If I loved the person I would tell them. IMO cheating is a sign that something is wrong with the relationship and both partners should work on fixing the issue or ending the relationship. Plus if the cheating involves sex it could put the other partner at risk of getting STD's and that is not a nice thing.

On a side note, if I was in a relationship and was going to cheat it would not be just a kiss.

[Scarlet Reynolds]

Well, in if you really love the person, you wouldn't cheat in the first place. However, if your lucky to have a very patient and understanding partner then you have to open up to him/ her about your cheating acts and be very prepared to accept the consequences.

[Nanoose]

Well I have been faithful to my wife for over three decades but I don’t think I could truthfully answer this question. Honesty is the best policy but sometimes it cuts like a knife. If I cheated and told my wife she would be hurting for a long time and maybe loose things like self esteem. She also still knows a few people that do dirty deeds dirt cheep but their unprofessional so they would probably get caught – crumble under interrogation and my wife would wind up in jail.
I do figure if you cheat on your partner and then don’t tell them and then have sex with them your taking the chance of killing them so they should know the facts. Cheers!

[ECO]

Looking back at my opinion from a year or two ago it has changed.........

forget how it goes but something like this:

A bird crashes into a pile of the brown stuff that floats in the toilet, at first he is upset but then finds comfort in the warm of the the brown stuff that floats in the toilet compared to the chilly weather
the bird then start to sing because he's happy
a cat hears the bird and eats it
The morale of the story is to cheat and keep your f-ing mouth shut

Think I got that correct?

Plus it's not cheating unless you say I love you and mean it

[Wahoo]

Or, even if you're caught flagrante delicto in the act, DENY, DENY, DENY! And keep denying.

It worked for Bill Clinton.



PS. My guess is it regularly works for a lot of Rent-A-Rastas, too.

[Wahoo]

Eco's right, it's not cheating unless you say I love you and mean it...it's just...exercise.

[ECO]

Exercise...not it's like a baseball player taking practice swings so he can go home and hit the home run with his a nasty man or woman who doesn't wash their private area of a wife that is colder than ice. oops I mean it's better than jerking off......

[GhettoGurl]

It's not cheating if you use a condom