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Postby LadySizzla » Sat Feb 14, 2009 8:03 am

damn, for a minute i thought it was you righting that post BB and i was overjoyed to read that you werent as sexy as your siggie pic, therefore not being competition for me. BUT DAMN...you still could be :evil:

as for the question i can understand why he wouldnt find her attractive anymore whilst still loving her as a person. but truth is sexual attraction is a big part of a relationship. he should encourage her rather than criticize her, help educate her about eating habits, learning about what fattening and what isnt, cook healthy meals together, exercise together etc. cos the way he's going - if i was her i'd lose weight then dump him for a fitter model.
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Postby LadySizzla » Sat Feb 14, 2009 1:34 pm

Bajanbabe wrote:I hear you Sizzla a good dose of his own message. After all she had two kids. If she's just being lazy then try somehow to motivate her.

Ha ha ha ha ha ha why do we have to compete sweetie. :wink: :wink:


We don't! I don't really mind people being as hot as me. :lol:
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Postby ECO » Sat Feb 14, 2009 8:10 pm

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Bajanbabe wrote:I hear you Sizzla a good dose of his own message. After all she had two kids. If she's just being lazy then try somehow to motivate her.

Ha ha ha ha ha ha why do we have to compete sweetie. :wink: :wink:


We don't! I don't really mind people being as hot as me. :lol:


As long as they tell you that your tits are nicer! I dare someone to state that they have a nicer set.
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Postby LadySizzla » Sun Feb 15, 2009 8:00 am

Thats right you guys. I have the best tits in the world. FACT. Even if you don't agree, don't say it out loud - or else I'll take a contract out on your life. :twisted:
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Postby Tequila and Lime » Mon Feb 16, 2009 12:58 pm

He can encourage her. But, to go so far as to say he doesn't love her anymore and make her feel like crap is total BS. I'm sure he's a PRIZE himself. Self-righteous bastards....MEN!!!!

I hope she loses all that weight and then dumps his ass!
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Postby Tequila and Lime » Mon Feb 16, 2009 1:33 pm

Used to trying to tone it down for the kids and work, Tinks. I'll try to be more vulgar for you!!!!!
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Postby urban » Thu Feb 19, 2009 12:20 am

Tequila and Lime wrote:He can encourage her. But, to go so far as to say he doesn't love her anymore and make her feel like crap is total BS. I'm sure he's a PRIZE himself. Self-righteous bastards....MEN!!!!

I hope she loses all that weight and then dumps his ass!
Things like that happen!

Problem is, sometimes there are assholes out there who will say "fat" and other nasty words about their spouse who has merely gained a few and "spread" a little which is to be expected with age. I remember a friend of mine who complained that his lady was "so fat now" ...and she was 25 (and pretty hot!) but he had met her when she was 18... i.e. thin, more boyish hips. He couldn't take her widening into an actual woman. I tried to explain it to him--eventually she dumped him, and rightly so.

People have distorted views sometimes.

I don't know what I would advise that woman, if I knew her. People who talk like that though, should try and lose weight for their own selves... to feel better about themselves.
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Postby Tequila and Lime » Thu Feb 19, 2009 9:12 am

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Tequila and Lime wrote:He can encourage her. But, to go so far as to say he doesn't love her anymore and make her feel like crap is total BS. I'm sure he's a PRIZE himself. Self-righteous bastards....MEN!!!!

I hope she loses all that weight and then dumps his ass!
Things like that happen!

Problem is, sometimes there are assholes out there who will say "fat" and other nasty words about their spouse who has merely gained a few and "spread" a little which is to be expected with age. I remember a friend of mine who complained that his lady was "so fat now" ...and she was 25 (and pretty hot!) but he had met her when she was 18... i.e. thin, more boyish hips. He couldn't take her widening into an actual woman. I tried to explain it to him--eventually she dumped him, and rightly so.

People have distorted views sometimes.

I don't know what I would advise that woman, if I knew her. People who talk like that though, should try and lose weight for their own selves... to feel better about themselves.


Sort of how I feel about plastic surgery, Urban. If you want to do it for YOURSELF, great. If you are doing it for someone else, you probably aren't going to be happy in the end.
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Postby urban » Thu Feb 19, 2009 10:18 am

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Sort of how I feel about plastic surgery, Urban. If you want to do it for YOURSELF, great. If you are doing it for someone else, you probably aren't going to be happy in the end.


Yeah true, although I don't really like plastic surgery--except in cases of disfiguring accidents. It bothers me that people have to go and change how they look artificially in order to feel self-worth. I honestly don't think I could/would ever date a woman with silicone implants.

My theory on tits... There are many different sizes and shapes AND for every size and shape of breast out there, there is a male fan. Guys all talk about big boobs, but really, I think we all have our preferences--big, small, pointy, round, high, low, etc... variety is what makes the world go round.
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Postby Tequila and Lime » Thu Feb 19, 2009 10:53 am

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Tequila and Lime wrote:
Sort of how I feel about plastic surgery, Urban. If you want to do it for YOURSELF, great. If you are doing it for someone else, you probably aren't going to be happy in the end.


Yeah true, although I don't really like plastic surgery--except in cases of disfiguring accidents. It bothers me that people have to go and change how they look artificially in order to feel self-worth. I honestly don't think I could/would ever date a woman with silicone implants.

My theory on tits... There are many different sizes and shapes AND for every size and shape of breast out there, there is a male fan. Guys all talk about big boobs, but really, I think we all have our preferences--big, small, pointy, round, high, low, etc... variety is what makes the world go round.


Same way with the penis.....
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Postby LadySizzla » Thu Feb 19, 2009 10:54 am

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Tequila and Lime wrote:
Sort of how I feel about plastic surgery, Urban. If you want to do it for YOURSELF, great. If you are doing it for someone else, you probably aren't going to be happy in the end.


Yeah true, although I don't really like plastic surgery--except in cases of disfiguring accidents. It bothers me that people have to go and change how they look artificially in order to feel self-worth. I honestly don't think I could/would ever date a woman with silicone implants.

My theory on tits... There are many different sizes and shapes AND for every size and shape of breast out there, there is a male fan. Guys all talk about big boobs, but really, I think we all have our preferences--big, small, pointy, round, high, low, etc... variety is what makes the world go round.


just for the record mine are real. :mrgreen:
I intrigue more people in real life than I do in cyberspace.What I WILL do is to capitalize on their attraction to me.If I set out to take advantage of anyone's attraction, its simply for the benefit of God's kingdom.People such as myself, whether we try or not, will always radiate some kinda attraction that men find alluring.my message to those who find it annoying "Don't hate".
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Postby urban » Thu Feb 19, 2009 11:39 am

Tequila and Lime wrote:
Same way with the penis.....


Don't know if I can comment on that one. :wink:
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Postby urban » Thu Feb 19, 2009 11:40 am

LadySizzla wrote:
just for the record mine are real. :mrgreen:


Well, you seem like a trustworthy individual, but I may have to give them a little squeeze just to be absolutely certain.
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Postby LadySizzla » Thu Feb 19, 2009 11:46 am

urban wrote:
LadySizzla wrote:
just for the record mine are real. :mrgreen:


Well, you seem like a trustworthy individual, but I may have to give them a little squeeze just to be absolutely certain.


Be my guest. Hope you have big hands.. :wink:
I intrigue more people in real life than I do in cyberspace.What I WILL do is to capitalize on their attraction to me.If I set out to take advantage of anyone's attraction, its simply for the benefit of God's kingdom.People such as myself, whether we try or not, will always radiate some kinda attraction that men find alluring.my message to those who find it annoying "Don't hate".
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Re: My extra pounds testing his love

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Postby Pooky » Thu Feb 19, 2009 2:59 pm

LadySizzla wrote:
urban wrote:
LadySizzla wrote:
just for the record mine are real. :mrgreen:


Well, you seem like a trustworthy individual, but I may have to give them a little squeeze just to be absolutely certain.


Be my guest. Hope you have big hands.. :wink:


I've pawed them and they are beautiful. I think my moobs are getting close to matching hers though :o .

As for the "Fat" thing... I am just as bad and regret being a Dick! I told my son's mum after she put on weight that she looked like an "earth mother" ....she never forgave me for that...and I wish I couldda taken it back.

I think physical attraction needs to be maintained in a relationship. Sex is important and both partners need to work on their appearance...hence me thinking of either liposuction for mi moobs.. or at least a AA sized wonder-bra.
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Postby urban » Thu Feb 19, 2009 3:05 pm

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As for the "Fat" thing... I am just as bad and regret being a Dick! I told my son's mum after she put on weight that she looked like an "earth mother" ....she never forgave me for that...and I wish I couldda taken it back.

Whenever people ask me how my ex-wife is doing, I always say "she's eating well." ...but not to her face, of course, so I'm not really that mean.

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I think physical attraction needs to be maintained in a relationship. Sex is important and both partners need to work on their appearance...hence me thinking of either liposuction for mi moobs.. or at least a AA sized wonder-bra.
Yes, it is important to keep that spark. If you lose it, it may not return. It is also important for the partner to feel desired and calling them fat, well-fed, or (LMAO) earth-mother, is a way to guarantee a few months of dating nobody but the Palmala Sisters.

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Postby LadySizzla » Thu Feb 19, 2009 3:12 pm

I've pawed them and they are beautiful. I think my moobs are getting close to matching hers though :o .

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:?: and where was I at the time? :mrgreen: :lol:
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Postby Pooky » Thu Feb 19, 2009 3:20 pm

LadySizzla wrote:I've pawed them and they are beautiful. I think my moobs are getting close to matching hers though :o .

:?: and where was I at the time? :mrgreen: :lol:



I think you were ordering from the Sizzling menu. I think it was just before u showed me that ..."tattoo" :twisted:

Was a great nite. I hear you lot are having a girlie night. Maybe I should put on my frock, lippy and hig heels...and tuck "the nudger" under and up so you will let me come.

Won't hold my breath though. :wink:
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Postby urban » Thu Feb 19, 2009 3:22 pm

Pooky wrote:... I hear you lot are having a girlie night. Maybe I should put on my frock, lippy and hig heels...and tuck "the nudger" under and up so you will let me come.


Good luck coming with your nudger tucked under. tried that?


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