Real making up!

[MZKUMA]

When couples have an argument and it isn't resolved immediately, it causes stress (even if you feel you are in the right). Sometimes, discussing issues need to be done at a later time to prevent an already heated argument from turning into a raging inferno. My question to you is- when the cool down period is a bit too long (say a week) does it make you think past the current argument to things in the past that were kinda swept under the rug for the sake of peace? In my opinion those issues that were swept under the rug has to be dealt with if the relationship is to survive. Those swept under the rug issues/concerns/disagreements means there are some communication problems. Once they are resolved, it would be important to not allow any issues to pile up. It may have been allowed to maintain peace, but peace for who? Certainly not for the relationship! Talking it out will allow the 'MAKE UP' that will work it out. (If both sides want the same).

[ECO]

MZ, I suck at relationships so if you want my 2 cents I'll give it but I would suggest doing the opposite of what I say.

[MZKUMA]

I'm one of those folks, who hates confrontation and arguments, so I won't start one and very reluctant to get involved in one.
And thenit all builds up and I just explode one day.. It's not good - I know.

I feel ya Tinks. Isn't it odd that as much as you try, some dumb, stupid crazy mess just find it's way into the home camp? Maybe just my camp.

[MZKUMA]

MZ, I suck at relationships so if you want my 2 cents I'll give it but I would suggest doing the opposite of what I say.

LOL@Eco

Wasn't asking advice. Just typing out my thoughts and wondering if others felt the same. So, go for it and throw in your 2 cents.