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Update on Ainsley and I's situation

Postby Batty_gyal » Tue Aug 11, 2009 11:34 pm

Ok update to fill everyone in!!:)

As many of you know I'm getting married to a man I never imagined I could love so much!!! I planned on having my wedding in April so some of you could be there...Tinks could be one of my amazing bridesmaids and Eco my fabulous photographer.

But plans have altered slightly..and although its not ideal...its for the best. Some of you know my dad owns a company and works with the UN. Currently they are dragging him all over the world. They just got back from China and suddenly there is plans for about six more countries in the next year. After much discussion it became apparent that if my wedding wedding was not in September my dad would be unable to come..and obviously its detrimental to me that my daddy be there to walk me down the isle. I would live to regret it otherwise. In April he is going to be in India....so that threw away my plans to have my wedding then as much as I had my dream wedding planned out for then.

So yea it kinda sucks...but on the other hand I'm having a tiny wedding with my family there..and since I'm very much a family orientated girl..I'm in heaven to have them all there.

But I want to be able to share this with my close friends..and some new friends. So Ainsley and I are thinking to have a big wedding party either this spring or the following fall...as soon as his papers are approved for him to come here as we are both doing school over here and working our way to moving back to the island. I will give plenty of warning so as many people can make it as possible. For the record your all invited and I will send out invites....I will mail them to those who give addys and email to the ones that don't.

The party will give me an excuse to wear my dress again...and Ainsley his tux!! What girl doesn't want to re wear the dress. I'm looking for ideas from any of you that think you might be able to make it. I was thinking of maybe renting out a bar/resturant and having a dinner and then a big party. Maybe Marguritaville or something?? Something that's not TOOO over the top expensive but where we can eat..dance..drink and have a blast.

All you UK ladies..aka Jel, Judith, Sizzla...Tinks...etc..I really hope you guys can make it. I'm dying to meet you..well cept Tinks who I already know and always love to see.

And Eco..if you still are willing..I'd love to have you do photographs of Ainsley and I..and everyone at the party. Its kinda like im having my wedding now..and reception then LOL!!

Thoughts?? Ideas???
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Re: Update on Ainsley and I's situation

Postby ECO » Tue Aug 11, 2009 11:44 pm

Darn, I will miss the wedding..........but I might be able to make the reception!
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Re: Update on Ainsley and I's situation

Postby Batty_gyal » Tue Aug 11, 2009 11:47 pm

I can work around people a fair bit...it means so much to me to have you guys there...so I will be flexible!! I will come up with some possible dates when I know how Ainsleys paperwork is progressing!! Then we can work out a date that works for everyone.

I wish you could be at the wedding to Eco!!:(
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Re: Update on Ainsley and I's situation

Postby Batty_gyal » Wed Aug 12, 2009 10:51 am

HAHAHAHA....a street dance would be fun except I think we would find it invaded by some interesting people!!:D:D:D And then it would not be about us or our wedding at all..but others who like the spotlight!! You know how the locals are LOL...it would end up with eight dance crews....a few local musicians....a thousand people...and I want a personalized wedding party!

The ruins or the italian place sounds good...if I have time I will check out rates and stuff while I'm there this trip!

And yes the party will be in JA Tinks..I'm just sorry that you can't be a bridesmaid like planned!!:( I would have loved that!
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Re: Update on Ainsley and I's situation

Postby ECO » Wed Aug 12, 2009 3:03 pm

Ashley, what date are you looking at in September? I'm still up in the air about my fall travel plans (Sept or Oct/ Jamaica or somewhere else).
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Re: Update on Ainsley and I's situation

Postby damswell » Wed Aug 12, 2009 6:07 pm

evitas is really nice, Eva is wonderful, shes on my fb and im sure she will answer any questions you have!
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Re: Update on Ainsley and I's situation

Postby ECO » Wed Aug 12, 2009 7:34 pm

damswell wrote:evitas is really nice, Eva is wonderful, shes on my fb and im sure she will answer any questions you have!


I might be mistaken but did/do they still offer free taxi rides to their place?
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Re: Update on Ainsley and I's situation

Postby damswell » Wed Aug 12, 2009 8:14 pm

I believe they still do. It is amazing up there, the view is awesome and the food is just as good.
We rented her villa when i got married waaay back in the day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :tease: :roulette: :roulette: :roulette: :roulette:
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Re: Update on Ainsley and I's situation

Postby Batty_gyal » Wed Aug 12, 2009 9:42 pm

Oooh cool...I should check it out on this trip.

And Sept 25th Eco. Your more than welcome.


Just so you know though..its such a casual affair its crazy. We are literally having a teeny wedding....coming back to the villa...and having a dinner. I'm probably offending heaps of people on the island by not inviting them because I need to keep it small due to time and space issues.

You Eco..however...are without a doubt an exception. You are completly and totally invited! Ainsley quite liked you..and adored Tinks. He always asks when you guys are coming back!
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Re: Update on Ainsley and I's situation

Postby damswell » Wed Aug 12, 2009 10:29 pm

what villa are you staying at?
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Re: Update on Ainsley and I's situation

Postby ECO » Wed Aug 12, 2009 10:32 pm

I'll let you know one way or another in a week. I looking at 2 days in Negril, 1 in Mobay and a couple in the Ochi area, so if I go I could just plan the Ochi part of the trip around your wedding.
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Re: Update on Ainsley and I's situation

Postby Batty_gyal » Thu Aug 13, 2009 1:03 am

That would be fantastic Eco!! Keep me posted!!
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Re: Update on Ainsley and I's situation

Postby MZKUMA » Thu Aug 13, 2009 2:26 am

Congrats!! I really hope all things work out so that your wedding will be as you've dreamed it to be.
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Re: Update on Ainsley and I's situation

Postby Batty_gyal » Thu Aug 13, 2009 3:40 am

Thanks MZKUMA!!:)
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Re: Update on Ainsley and I's situation

Postby ECO » Thu Aug 13, 2009 11:03 am

Batty_gyal wrote:That would be fantastic Eco!! Keep me posted!!


I will, hopefully I will be booking my airfare today and then searching around for my book on wedding photography! :dreads:
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Re: Update on Ainsley and I's situation

Postby Jelakins » Fri Aug 14, 2009 6:54 am

Ooohhh this is exciting!!!!
The first JaB members wedding!!!
I'm sure its going to be an absolutely fantastic day!!!
I gotta see a pick of you and you Daddy - probably with tears in y'alls eyes!!!
Have you got your dress???
Really wish I could be with you - oh well roll on the future reception!!
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Re: Update on Ainsley and I's situation

Postby Batty_gyal » Sat Aug 15, 2009 12:04 am

There will be tons of cake...yummy delicious cake to tantalize you ladies all the way from the UK to Jamaica. I cannot wait to see you all there and dance the night away in my white dress....with some of my favourite people....gonna be fun. I dunno where sizzla's at...but y'all make sure you bring her crazy arse!!!:D
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Re: Update on Ainsley and I's situation

Postby Batty_gyal » Sat Aug 15, 2009 12:04 am

There will be tons of cake...yummy delicious cake to tantalize you ladies all the way from the UK to Jamaica. I cannot wait to see you all there and dance the night away in my white dress....with some of my favourite people....gonna be fun. I dunno where sizzla's at...but y'all make sure you bring her crazy arse!!!:D
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Re: Update on Ainsley and I's situation

Postby Jelakins » Sat Aug 15, 2009 8:27 am

You're so excited, you're saying everything twice!!!!!!!!!

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Re: Update on Ainsley and I's situation

Postby Batty_gyal » Sat Aug 15, 2009 12:43 pm

Gimme a bit...it will probably come up three times out of excitement LOL!!!
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